You’re a professional single and you are looking to find a love.  You’ve searched high and low and have not had success and you are starting to think you might never find true love.  In the workplace, you are a high achiever and success comes with hard work and brings great satisfaction.  So why are you unlucky in love?  Where can you go to find a love that lasts and brings great satisfaction to your life?  You’ve tried the dating party scene, and gone out on blind dates; you’ve even grown fed up and have started to leave it to fate.

You may need to look at the dating scene through another lens to figure out your next step in the game.  Have you tried to work with an online matchmaking service?  I’m not talking about those online dating services like match and eharmony.  This is the real deal we’re talking about, www.vipsingles.com.   This service is an online matchmaking company.  They are a matchmaking service that has the single professional in mind.

Just imagine not having to worry about meeting someone online who has lied on his or her profile.  You don’t have to be concerned about the normal fears associated with online dating.  Those other sites do not complete thorough screening processes including background checks on their members.  If you work with www.vipsingles.com, you can be certain that anyone you meet through their service has been thoroughly screened.

Are you tired of being alone in the dating scene without anyone on your side?  Then you can have the fairy tale ending, just decide to work with a professional matchmaking service.  You can also choose to work with a local matchmaking firm in your area where you can meet with this professional.  Such services work for you with the sole goal of making you happy and finding you a soul mate.  The professional matchmaker interviews you to ascertain your personality and character traits and works to learn what you are looking for in a mate.  Working with such a professional will bring a neutral party into the issue with a fresh set of eyes.  If you decide to utilize an online dating service instead, you only have your own eyes to check out the profiles and see which works for you.  Working with a matchmaker can eliminate some of the stress you will be feeling.  You want to find a love, right, then why not work with a professional.

You won’t be on your own and you can be sure that with a professional matchmaking firm, their potential date candidates are also thoroughly screened and you will not be matched up with a stalker or worse.  Take the loneliness and frustration out of your world by turning to a professional.  You are a single professional and you have enough on your plate with your career and making success happen.  It’s okay that you need help to find the perfect match.  The fairy tale is possible.  Dreams do come true.  Just be open to the possibilities and work with a professional.

Dating service promises a number of dates to satisfy the contractual agreement first, before the client’s selections. There is no focus towards marriage, only dating.

Matchmaking service promises a number of personal introductions for the express purpose of a long term commitment turning into a marriage. Women are screened and only if they are marriage minded and ready are they allowed into the library of the mind of a matchmaking service.

Dating service performs their matching using search criteria based only on what’s inputted into the search data base. There is no way to realistically validate the information used for searching. Emphasis can be set for any number of input information with out regard to the human element.

Matchmaking service performs their matching using a live in person human being who collects additional information in person, after an initial online profile is collected and applicant pays a one time fee of $25 up to $100 to be entered into a special ladies only for consideration. That is the first personal editing filter process for a matchmaking service.

The second filter is all women are personally met by an officer of the company for a final review. The third filter is men are also carefully screened before allowed to retain a high end upscale matchmaking service.

Each potential man client must attend a lunch or dinner as a one-on-one with an officer of the company in consideration of acceptance.

The fourth filter is a background check through a private investigator to make sure there are no claims or judgments.

A final filter, number 5, is a home visit performed by an office of the company.

 Make your selection based on the amount of work you want done for you and how much work you want to do. Happy hunting. Janis www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

FIRST there were nuclear-free zones, then alcohol-free zones. Now Sydney is set to introduce “homophobia-free zones”.

In an Australian-first, City of Sydney council is moving to single out parts of the city for a crackdown on homophobic behaviour.

The policy is still being finalised but Oxford St, as well as parts of Darlinghurst, King St, Newtown and Erskineville Rd, Erskineville will be recognised by the council as gay and lesbian precincts.

The move, passed by a vote of five to four, could allow City of Sydney Council to revoke late-night trading privileges for venues if their patrons commit homophobic abuse or violence, and require venues to include anti-homophobia measures in staff training and patron management.

Local businesses will be encouraged to use signs and stickers to declare their premises homophobia free.

The council will to consult with police, the Aids Council of NSW and other community groups to develop the strategy.

Sydney Lord Mayor Clover Moore said the move recognises the “essential gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender (GLBT) character of Oxford St”. She added while all areas of NSW are technically “homophobia-free zones”, this strategy recognises the importance of the GLBT community.

Councillor Phillip Black, who proposed the plan, said the idea was similar to alcohol-free or nuclear-free zones.

“At this point, the ball is with council staff to develop a proposal that will come back to council over the next few months, but it could involve stickers, badges, posters and T-shirts similar to the Safe Place pink triangle campaign,” he said. “We have to create awareness that homophobia is not acceptable.”

But gay Sydney councillor Shayne Mallard, who voted against the idea, has labelled the plan “a PR stunt”.

“It’s a gimmick, a token effort to do with a very serious problem,” Mr Mallard said. “It’s essentially signs and stickers. What we need is more police and, if they don’t have the resources, council should provide money to employ security guards.

Drag Queen Maxi Shield, a City of Sydney Oxford Street Safety ambassador, said the idea “can’t hurt”.

“More education in anything doesn’t go astray, but we need both awareness and more police,” Ms Shield said.

“We need more police presence and safety measures, not just putting a label on it.”

The strategy will operate in addition to two other council moves designed to make Oxford St safer and the Trading Premises Development Control Plan which was used to refuse the Gaff Nightclub’s application to virtually double its size.

Ms Moore said that decision followed objections from local residents about noise and “gay men also wrote to me about homophobic abuse from nightclub patrons”.

Source: Eros Newsletter (The Australian)

This is an interesting topic for all singles looking for that one dream man/woman but hasn?t yet succeeded. Dating services are popular and have been around for a long time now. Some of you would have tried it and found that special someone and many of you have not been so lucky. Here is a simple guide to those of you who are new to dating services.

Where to start and how do you go about dating? Today, there are numerous website available on the internet offering dating services and there are coaches and mentors also available to help you find your special someone.

While the larger cities will have more options, sometimes offering multiple dates and times and many meetings, the smaller cities and towns will have less of a selection based on the population and need. You just need to be on the lookout to find quality dating services in your area.

Another point to keep in mind is the larger the city you live in more possibilities exist for you to meet that many more people, and the smaller the city the lesser people you get to meet, so be patient and choose the right dating services to increase the scope of your finding your special one. As the saying goes haste makes waste, patience is virtue. Here are a few options available in the dating services today.

Speed or Fast-track Dating Services: This completely modern version of dating services keeps in mind that time is money and arranges for a quick chat with many people. The meeting may take place during lunch, or even snack time, or a Saturday or Sunday afternoon.

Mixers: A mixer is usually sponsored by a dating coach or someone in the dating industry who has a lot of clients. A mixer is advertised in a newspaper or on a website and usually held in a popular club, lounge or bar.

Mixed Dating services: These are mostly arranged in what have been considered traditional dating areas like, clubs, lounges or bars. The idea is to give the participating men and women a comfortable and familiar environment to meet and mingle and find their matching partners. This kind of dating service may or may not be free.

Free Dating Services: The advantage is that such dating services are a good way for you to post your details online and get information about people who are also seeking someone special through dating websites.

Free dating services differ from a free dating site for a number of reasons. Dating sites simply hold profiles of single people looking to meet someone else. The website is a way for people to read a profile and attempt to connect with another person.

There is someone for everyone. And it is a matter of time before you find that special person. So be patient and have faith, keep your eyes open, the next person you meet through the dating services could be someone special.

Singles dating service on the internet

When most people think of a singles dating service, they think of online dating. That is a huge market for those looking to find romance, whether it is for fun and games or a more serious relationship that may even take them to the altar. You can find many singles dating service when you search on the internet. You can find specialty groups such as Christians, seniors, people with disabilities and just about any other distinction you can think of. There are sites that are free and some that charge a membership fee. Lots of people have found love when they have used services they found on the internet.

When you use a singles dating service on the internet and you are only interested in finding someone to spend the rest of your life with, it is easy to make that clear. There is no dance, no games. You say what you are looking for and those who are interested in the same thing will be able to contact you. There will be no misunderstanding about what either of you want, and there are many couples who are together today because they found each other on an online singles dating service.

Singles dating service, parties and events

Lots of people have met their special someone by meeting them at a singles dating service event. There are services that cater to people who are adventurous as well as people who are looking for quieter times. You can find singles activities and events that might include a dinner cruise, a rock climbing adventure, wine tasting or just simple mixers. When you attend enough of these events you are bound to meet some one who attracts and intrigues you. There are many success stories of couples who have met in this way.

Matchmaking services

When you hire a personal matchmaker to find you a prospective mate, you are almost guaranteed success. The only problem with this way of finding true love is that it can be very expensive. When you use the services of a matchmaker, they are skilled in the art of bringing two people together that will click and many people have found love using a private matchmaking service. Most of them will come with a guarantee and will work up close and personal with all their clients to ensure that matches will be compatible for both parties involved.